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To me, this is the biggest punishment because it greatly reduces the man’s future chances to successfully approach other women.
And I want to get the word out that we need to be compassionate for boys and men who are making sexual requests.I read many different Internet forums that deal with men’s issues as they relate to attraction and dating.I was over at the A Voice for Men forum and found a devastatingly perceptive observation regarding why so many men don’t approach women. When I inventoried my fears, I realized that by far, the fear of punishment dramatically dwarfs the fear of rejection.There are some other compelling reasons for why older women are more attractive to younger guys.And of course, it’s not a secret that women in their thirties and forties have a much higher sex driver than the ones in their twenties.I am meaning how men are forced to be the ones to initiate, or else nothing’s ever happening for you.
What sense does it make to force a person do a job, refuse to tell them how to do it “right,” and then dole out powerful punishments for doing it “wrong” ..?
I know a feminist woman who goes to bars in order to compete to make men cry with her friends.
I want men to go out there, and talk about the punishments. …they were all friends with the feminist who does this.
Fear of punishment is a huge reason for the popularity of online dating.
If the approach can be made from the relative safety of the computer, the rejection can have far fewer punishments for the man. In smaller communities, there is a still the risk of punishment because women will communicate with each other.
For a guy established in the community and re-entering dating without adequate social skills and charisma is running a huge risk when he approaches a woman to see if there is a mutual attraction.