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So true was this argument that at the opening of London Olympics 2012, an interracial couple were used as the desired relationship goal in modern Britain Or so it seemed.
We have seen increasing cross-racial romantic love stories breaking down barriers of what it means to fall in Love.
This is also seen when husband, boyfriend or friends of women try to “help” them.
Two examples came to mind; One was the scene in Get Out, when Rose Armitage played by Allison Williams and Chris Washington played by Daniel Kaluuya Were stopped by the police on their way to the family home of Rose.
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These scenarios played out on my mind while I was having a chat with a couple that are friends of mine. The white man in the couple told me that many times, racist comments have been made about them and he failed to tell his husband about them because he doesn’t want him to know, as he has to protect him.
I told him that this is his white saviour complex at play and he assumed that his husband does not have the validity or the currency to speak up for himself.
But the reality is, his partner never asked for that essence of white guilt makes many progressive and white liberals assume that they have the answer to racism and in the process, they devalue the people that actually have the struggle, people who are used to and well equipped to deal with it and respond to it.
Even when white people speaking up is done with good intention, the reality is, if white people feel they need to speak for us so we can get heard, they deny us of our agency.
But my piece is not much about the themes of “Get Out” but rather on the unconscious “white saviour” in interracial dating (in couples where one person is white). However, in my book, there is difference between supporting me when I am confronting racism and saving me.
Too many black people in interracial relationship have always found themselves in a situation where their white partner assumes the role of the avenger.
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